Practical tips for creating a strong personality
What do you need to do?
You
will receive answers to these questions in this book, where the practical
examples show the entire process of creating a leader in a child
Preface
“You will never become a real leader if you don’t learn how to make difficult decisions and implement them.”
Andre Norton. Elven Lord
The world imposes rather strict requirements on today's children - the system of education and upbringing has set a high level of mental, mental and physical development for kindergarteners and schoolchildren. The environment of the child abounds with talented, gifted peers. Opportunities for growth, broadening horizons, gaining new experience are growing every year. It seems that the “middle-runners” in the modern world will be completely unsuitable for life, uncompetitive, lost, will not gain recognition, success, self-esteem, and faith in themselves.
Parents are increasingly asking themselves: how can one raise a leader in a child — especially a boy?
Is leadership really possible to instill, develop, educate even in the timidest children?
What do you need to do?
The sages say that the greatest success in life is successful children. How to raise a child so that he becomes a successful person can realize himself and be happy?
Every parent dreams of raising a child as a true leader, a confident person. That's just how many people don’t know how to do it correctly. It is fundamentally important not to be late with the beginning of a long and difficult work on the development of such qualities. And to do this should be long before school.
All children are born geniuses - this statement is probably familiar to everyone. The task of parents is to help this genius realize themselves.
Leaders are not born, but become, psychologists say, so it’s better to develop these qualities since childhood. Everything depends on the temperament - it is important to teach sanguine persons to bring the matter to the end, to encourage phlegmatic and melancholic people in action, and choleric people, on the contrary, to encourage tolerance. The main thing to remember: the leader is the mastermind of the group. So you need to be able to be convincing for everyone.
How to raise a child leader? This question is often asked by child-loving parents who dream of raising future Rockefellers and Rothschild from their children. In fact, there is only one answer to the question - a child who is loved in the family, open and independent, and able to overcome difficulties can become a leader.
The ability of the child to lead others for themselves is often inherent in the first years of life. However, one child grows up the leader of the "positive" and others around him are drawn to him, ready to follow him. Other children become authoritarian, autocratic, leading with the help of the "iron gloves".
A child as a teenager needs to be helped to realize personal reserves, to realize his creative potential.
In order to educate a leader, it is necessary to teach the child to actively communicate and conduct a dialogue, to develop his creative thinking.
And it is also very important to teach a teenager to analyze his feelings, emotions, and evaluate himself from the outside. In other words, if you want to educate a leader, develop a personality in a child.
Contents
1. Parental love in leadership education
2. The makings of a child - the leader
3. Little tricks of raising a child leader
4. What you need to become a leader
5. Personal qualities of a leader
7. Factors determining leadership ability
8. What you need to teach the future leader
9. How to develop self-confidence, where to start
10. Main leadership qualities!
11. How to raise your authority
12. Secrets of leaders
1. Parental love in leadership education
You
wondered how to raise a leader in a child, almost all parents ask, because
everyone wants only the best future for their child. At the same time, many
people forget that any open and independent child who can be learned to
overcome difficulties and who is loved and supported in the family can become a
leader.
Fundamentals of Psychology
Psychologists
assure that the most important thing for the education of leadership qualities
in a child is parental love for him. This is the first and most important
condition. Another thing that also needs to be paid attention to is the amount
of “no” in the daily life of a baby. After all, if the prohibitions are
constantly crumbled on the crumbs, especially if they are practically baseless
for the most part, and not real, then this will be reflected in the children's
character. But connivance in the upbringing of future leadership is also
unacceptable, that is, if a child starts doing something wrong, he needs to be
informed about it while choosing expressions. It is important that he
understood that, despite his mistake, nothing terrible happened, everything can
be fixed. But phrases like "you are bad" or "you cannot do
anything" obviously will not lead to anything good.
In all
undertakings, the child certainly needs to be encouraged, because this, in
turn, will contribute to the development of self-confidence in him. Even small
successes of the baby should be celebrated by parents as achievements since
babies initially see their first friends as well as critics in their parents.
If some action does not work right away, you need to prompt the kid and explain
that it will definitely work out only later the main thing is to try.
Another
point: in order to raise a leader in a child, you should never hide real life
difficulties from him. After all, people are daily faced with the need to
overcome all sorts of imperfections and difficulties. Therefore, the baby must
be taught to overcome difficulties and boldly go to them. And for this, he will
have to give an opportunity to overcome obstacles on his own, sometimes even
with a small risk. After all, only in his own experience, a child will be able
to understand that not always everything goes as it was intended.
You can
bring up a leader in a child only if you maintain your desire for
self-realization, so let him attend interesting circles and sections, speak in
public. Often miracles create a healthy rivalry. But if the child is confident
in the support of the parents, self-confidence increases dramatically.
At the
same time, parents should remember that the leader cannot be the one who takes
his brute force. After all, a leader is a sociable and purposeful person who
willingly and confidently leads the rest.
Practical advice
So, the
question of how to raise a leader in a child should be approached responsibly.
First of all, experts recommend remembering the following rules:
1. The
child’s desire to perform on stage should be encouraged, and he should be
taught to speak properly in a timely manner.
2. The
opinion of the child certainly needs to be respected, and discussing the
actions of fairy-tale heroes and ordinary people with him will not be
superfluous.
3. A
child should not receive good grades - the development of a desire to expand
one’s outlook, the presence of motivation to learn is more important, that is,
one needs to create motivation specifically for learning, but not for grades.
4. The
task of the parents is to teach the child to lose in time, experience life's
failures, while it’s definitely not worth scolding for them.
5. You
should be interested in the personal lives of your child. Then parents can
timely notice third-party attempts to manipulate their child and prevent them.
The child himself must understand that a true friend will definitely not do
this, therefore, manipulations must be among the unacceptable actions of his
environment, and the child himself must not allow such behavior on his part
towards others.
6.
Compliance with generally accepted rules in society is mandatory and the child
should in no way neglect them.
7. Not to
be afraid of responsibility for one’s actions is one of the most important qualities
of a leader; therefore, a child should be taught to set concrete goals in time
and then reach them.
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